You need to get a code called the IP address.
Go to mulityplayer.
click on add server
type in the name that you would like to know that server by (does not matter what you name it)
and type in the IP address (it must match in order to work)
then click done.
Then double click on the server you created and it should connect.
I would advise connecting to a common server to make sure every thing works because personal servers are alittle harder to connect to.
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